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Tomboy's Sexuality & Sexual Health for Rawfoodies!

The place for talk on sexuality, with a focus upon health and lifestyle.  On the movie scale of G to NC17, strictly PG-rated material is the limit, folks.

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Numbness in vagina because of Cobber-IUD/cobber-toxicity

Started by Helle Norgaard Lykkebo. Last reply by Houdini Steve Owens Oct 13, 2018. 2 Replies

Hi everybody, mostly women. I got a cobber-IUD up for over two years ago in 2012, and it gave me numbness in my vagina/clitoris. It hurt a lot when I got the IUD up, and I was nearly fainting afterwards. I got the IUD out after 3 months because of…Continue

Tags: low, libido, numbness, drive, sex

Can delayed ejaculation be helped with diet?

Started by Eva Budai. Last reply by Houdini Steve Owens Sep 4, 2018. 1 Reply

Hi there, I know erectile dysfunction can be helped with diet but I don't know if delayed ejaculation can be helped too. I should guess so. Any experience? I have a new boyfriend and I try to change his diet, and on the line I also hope this issue…Continue

Oral sex with a meat eater

Started by GardenGirl. Last reply by Houdini Steve Owens Sep 4, 2018. 7 Replies

Hi fruities:So, I'll get right to the point. I'm a plant eater, but the man is not. (we are making strides with him though :) ) Sorry for the straightforwardness if it offends anyone, but since becoming a vegan, I have a very very high sensitivity…Continue

Sex-positive: Exploring the shame around sex

Started by LyddieBird Jul 2, 2015. 0 Replies

The sex-positive movement is about exploring and removing the shame that our culture shrouds sex in. I think this fits in nicely with the 811rv lifestyle because it's about self-acceptance and self-love. In this video I share a little bit of my…Continue

Am I pregnant?????

Started by Ashley Lewis. Last reply by Fruit Babe Jan 19, 2015. 2 Replies

I had sex with my boyfriend of three years for the first time last week. I am 20 years old and I don't want to have children at the moment but my period hasn't come. We used the ovulation calendar, condoms, and he pulled out. My period is a week…Continue

Premature Ejaculation

Started by Scobro. Last reply by Haven Raye Dec 24, 2014. 4 Replies

 Any guys out there had a life long issue with this problem.Or any women been with a guy who has had this problem?How did you cure this situation? I am looking to cure it and was hoping this way of eating might help.I know serotonin plays a role in…Continue

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Comment by Ashley Lewis on December 27, 2014 at 11:35pm

I had sex with my boyfriend of three years for the first time last week. I am 20 years old and I don't want to have children at the moment but my period hasn't come. We used the ovulation calendar, condoms, and he pulled out. My period is a week late and Ive been getting cramps all week. HELPP!!!!

Comment by Cody Stephenson on December 7, 2014 at 9:28pm

This Is The Free PDF for Women and the Next is for Men, Save It, Read it, And Share it with Everyone :D especially with those who deserve more Power, OR Need more Love. Haha wait... That's Everyone. 

Healing Love Through the Tao, Cultivating-Female-Sexual-Energy by-M...

Comment by Cody Stephenson on December 7, 2014 at 7:31pm
Comment by Cody Stephenson on December 7, 2014 at 7:23pm

Alot of the source of our energy can be rooted in our sexual organs. the ovaries and for man his semen. i know you say your not interested in practices where you do not orgasm but the real truth is orgasms with certain sexual practices where you still retain the essence are some of the best orgasms you will ever experience. 

Comment by Cody Stephenson on December 7, 2014 at 7:21pm

 My father gave me this book for males when i turned 21 and already had been trying to hold my seed naturally for a couple months cuz i watched as you say alot of nerve energy leave my spine after cumming, and of course was much less with a partner as we had each other to balance each other. but non the less watched my spine slowly feel more uncomfortable in itself like it lost something precious or like the soft bean bag it felt lke i was living on got turned to a hard uncomfortable wooden chair. haha it's uncomfortable and it's hard to sleep when your uncomfortable. i'm 25 now and have been practicing this taoist secrets of love, cultivating male sexual energy kung fu since that book, and the rate at which i've been able to grow spiritually has been tremendous then from before as well as having an extreme benefit on the connection and love and intimacy in relationships in that time. now i get amazing comfortable sleep :), although i must admit once in a blue moon i may have a really intense dream that can lead to the loss of some of that sacred seed and it has sometimes the potential as you said to cause me to be a little more uncomfortable while trying to sleep although my body recovers pretty quickly as maintaining that life force for long periods of time helps your body recover it's life force more quickly. to me it's like growing a tree as your starting that sexual energy is just growing mostly in your sexual organs like little trees and the more you allow it to grow the stronger and bigger the tree will become. if you really allow it to grow that energy will be able to nourish and take root in the base of your spine nourishing your nervous system more deeply and relaxing you at a more primal level. now if you cum there you'll be uprooting your tree and the life force my not be strong enough to keep it's roots in the spine, the spine would have gotten comfortable with the life force and it will feel uncomfortable like your naked in the cold wind(maybe this also may feel good :) but you know what i mean) but maybe it did retain it's roots in the spine and you have another orgasm and another.... i say let the tree grow get the energy to nourish your heart chakra or whatever you'd like to call that bundle of nerves in the spine and it will make you feel more love then you may ever had. a sweet nectar, keep your seed protected and grow your tree till you can feel that dense energy in your pituitary gland and it feels like your ovaries or testicles are pulsing with that gland. that signifies your endocrine system is working well and in sync. although for a male it may take 3 weeks or a month for his semen to cultivate enough Chi pressure for the energy to release that stage depending on how much he has abused his vitality with masterbation or substances and or of course diet. but grow your seeds with patience and time all the while still being able to make love, just while retaining that vital spirit essence. Then, when you want to experience amazing orgasms while retaining the essence, when your close to cumming. not too close ;) at first. pull that highly charged sexual high vibrational orgasmic energy into the base up the spine and up as if you had a straw going from your pituitary gland down to the base of your spine and drinking the Nectar all up passing the heart center in the spine on the way up and maybe causing a feeling of electricity or powerful orgasmic currents through your heart and body and i can almost guarantee you'll be smiling or at least feeling love. grow your tree and enjoy the delicious fruit it bears. and if it's mature enough you can feel stable enough to share that fruit with another..... and get better sleep. ;)

Blessings May All Beings Be Happy ;D

the books for man and woman

Comment by for.the.love.of.fruit on September 11, 2014 at 12:23am
What do you recommend for birth control?
Comment by Purdey-jane on February 6, 2014 at 4:39pm
Hey robert!

Thanks for your reply, my name is purdey jane or purdey, never jane! :p

I had a therapist but I felt I no longer needed her as I know longer feel anger I have forgiven, I have rose above the past but I just cant seem to connect with lovers I literally dont like anyone I feel so asexual! Im scared ill always be this way and ill never find real love. I can love but I find I always love them in a brotherly or best friend type of way. If inly there was a simple answer. :(

Thank you for the recommendation on that book will look into it!
Comment by Rawbert on February 6, 2014 at 11:25am

Hi Jane,

I'd try and find a good therapist to work out the past abuse trauma. sorry that happened to you.. it's horrible..

I also recommend to try karezza, a non-goal oriented (non-orgasmic), gentle, bonding type of love making.

Comment by Purdey-jane on February 6, 2014 at 5:43am

i originally posted this in discussion on my blog but was asked to remove it as it is only a topic for this page.

Okay, so i suffered from an eating disorder anorexia/bulimia i was also diagnosed with depression, anxiety and low self esteem due to being traumatised when i was 5. ( My uncle sexual abused me) i attended therpay sessions which obviously after years of keeping this secret to myself had to be re opened, bringing back memories id been trying to block for years. ive been in relationships and ive had intercourse but never have i felt sexy during it , ive always felt used or dirty. obviously through my eating disorder i lost my period and it still has not came back. i have also lost my sexual attraction to guys and my arousal has completely gone in fact it makes me feel sick the thought of it. 

Can anyone enlighten me on this topic if you yourself have experienced this and if it has came back and/or how long it took! 

Comment by Dezi on March 30, 2013 at 10:50am

I think its time to try and rev this group up a bit and get started. I'm looking for some people that wanna offer ideas on how to make this group better. 


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