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I have recently changed to 801010 (its been just over a month now) and I have honestly never felt better, I have been happy and excited every single day to get up eat and exercise. Which is a total switch for me as I used to have an eating disorder and a bit of depression. 

I also recently got a boyfriend (who I am so blessed to have met and be with) and he also makes me SO happy! I believe this happened in part because I am finally OKAY with myself and I am ready to be there for someone else.

I have also reconsidered my drinking, I feel like I don't really need to. Before I drank for confidence (for the most part) and now I feel like I am confident enough to do what ever I want! Which is an amazing feeling.

Lately me and one of my roommates (christine) have been on the outs. We argue over stupid things and every time we talk I seem to leave with this "hurt" feeling from something she said or did. I used to confide in her for things I was thinking about doing (like my stopping drinking) and she just turns around later and makes fun of me for it or makes snide remarks about it. I talked to our mutual friend (mackenzie) about why Christine seems to have this weird secret hatrid for me and Mackenzie said that Christine had talked to her about how she thinks I am taking my diet too seriously lately and that I am not really myself anymore and that we have nothing in common.

Side note: Me and Christine used to go out and party/drink all the time. Now I still come with when I can and want to but I just don't drink.

This is really hurting me as we used to be so close!

Please help :(

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Hi Carley,

Last January I started 811. All my friends and family, exept my husband, think I'm extreme. They give me weird looks and talk about me being anorexic. I've learned that the best way to handle it is just to stop talking about food. Let them make up their own minds about it. They see me glowing and full of energy. I think that's proof enough. I'll just wait for them to come with questions.

Keep up the good fruit x

Hopefully one day they will see. It feels good to know I have people on my side 

Thank you so much :)

Great reply JayDee!

I agree on just not talking about food! I've learned that people have to just see you improve your life to understand why you're making this change! I saw after my reply that you already signed the lease, so this would probably be a better option!

Best of luck!

Shouldn't it say "My friend takes my diet too seriously"

Well actually its just the one. Everyone of my other friends are supportive!

Sounds good :)

omgosh, hahahahahaha! I just got what you were saying! Yes, that is what it should say ;)

+1 to this!

Carley, it might be worth talking to your friend about this. Tell her you've noticed she seems really bothered by the fact that you eat different food. Ask her why that is, and what you can do to stop it bothering her so much. Things may get better if you can talk it out!

I was gonna talk to her about it today... so we will see how that goes! 

Thanks for the advice :)

Shouldn't it say "My friend takes my diet too seriously"

^^^^^^

YES! :D

i would move away from her, she's obviously acting bad towards you and making you feel bad. Avoid stress like the plague if you can.

We are all living together again next year, we signed the lease back in january!

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