Tonight was very insightful in the field of relationship with a partner.
I got told I was harsh and telling him he was f***ed up after I asked him to seek help like counseling to deal with his issues of lying, cheating, betraying and abusing women.
That is pretty interesting.
I didn't like the conversation being treated as a monster because I am asking for him to own what he did and take responsibility for what he created for himself and the women including me, that he has been hurting by his behavior and decisions.
But I am certainly not going to allow the abuse or the denial to go on and be presented as the bad one.
As Dr Graham said in one of his conferences, there is no right there is no wrong there are consequences.
I am ready for this too, it is ok if this ends the relationship and we never see each other again.
Because there is no way abuse is going to win over me again, there is no way the past as f***ed up as it is is going to dictate my current and future life and my degree and state of happiness.
It is just not going to happen.
And I agree to disagree with him as much as we are different but I won't let him disrespect me or fool me again.
Heal with me darling, heal with my support. If you are wishing to keep going with the abuse system, good on you too, just it won't be me by your side and it won't be you by my side.