Can some women please share their experiences with me regarding hitting the 3000 calorie mark? I'm in the transitional stage of 811 (have to admit, more unsweet fruit than sweet) but feel myself fearing bananas/dates and also hitting the 3K mark. I'm at my ideal weight and I know that I may gain a couple of pounds eating 3K cals a day but my body should go back down to my natural weight, right? I've got a past littered with EDs and I feel a familiar fear creeping in although it's been years since I've been active with the EDs. I'll bring bananas to work and then they just sit and I end up freezing them because I'm afraid to eat them. I sincerely want to be eating 3K a day. Experiences???