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Tomboy's Sexuality & Sexual Health for Rawfoodies!

The place for talk on sexuality, with a focus upon health and lifestyle.  On the movie scale of G to NC17, strictly PG-rated material is the limit, folks.

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My "wheels" need some "greasing"..

Started by GardenGirl. Last reply by Rawphael Apr 13. 14 Replies

Hello all,Lately I've been having issues with my natural lubrication. No matter how relaxed and in the mood I am, I'm far far less lubricated than I used to be. (Only 21 years old!) Sometimes it is even painful for me as I seem to "dry out" in the…Continue

Sex Drive on 811

Started by Nickie Nicole. Last reply by Marina Smith Apr 13. 26 Replies

So my  libido has been in high gear for a little while and when I started to do some reasearch I was sure I was going to read that being on an 811 diet increases sex drive. But no I read and heard the opposite, that a fruit diet will actually calm…Continue

Sex anyone....

Started by Ashley Lewis. Last reply by Rawbert Feb 19. 1 Reply

I am a virgin and will probably stay that way for a bit longer (I'm in no rush) but I want to have sex, my body kind of yearns it...lol but my mind does not allow my body to get everything it wants, thank goodness. I am conscious of all the diseases…Continue

Birth control pills and your period?

Started by Katie Douglass. Last reply by Jeana Raines Feb 18. 3 Replies

Sorry for the grossness!I'm interested in having sex soon one day, but I know birth control pills are animal tested and made out of animal bits. But just a hypothetical question: What would happen if I took birth control pills while on LFRV? And…Continue

Gender, sexuality, related issues...

Started by Mina. Last reply by Steffani Lopez Dec 12, 2013. 4 Replies

Hi! I originally posted this as a blog, but was asked to move it to this group.I'm in an unusual situation gender/sexuality wise, and could stand to kibbitz a bit.The short answer is that I'm probably MtF transgender. Realizing this has been a slow…Continue

30 Day No Orgasm Challenge

Started by Milos Stepita Nov 8, 2013. 0 Replies


No orgasms for a MONTH challenge! who's ready?

Started by melissa jackson. Last reply by Milos Stepita Nov 8, 2013. 261 Replies

Inspired by Derek. You can thank him:) So we all know sex, masturbation & orgasms can be addictive. Which is why I'm starting a 30 day challenge. The rules are as…Continue

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Comment by Purdey-jane on February 6, 2014 at 4:39pm
Hey robert!

Thanks for your reply, my name is purdey jane or purdey, never jane! :p

I had a therapist but I felt I no longer needed her as I know longer feel anger I have forgiven, I have rose above the past but I just cant seem to connect with lovers I literally dont like anyone I feel so asexual! Im scared ill always be this way and ill never find real love. I can love but I find I always love them in a brotherly or best friend type of way. If inly there was a simple answer. :(

Thank you for the recommendation on that book will look into it!
Comment by Rawbert on February 6, 2014 at 11:25am

Hi Jane,

I'd try and find a good therapist to work out the past abuse trauma. sorry that happened to you.. it's horrible..

I also recommend to try karezza, a non-goal oriented (non-orgasmic), gentle, bonding type of love making.

Comment by Purdey-jane on February 6, 2014 at 5:43am

i originally posted this in discussion on my blog but was asked to remove it as it is only a topic for this page.

Okay, so i suffered from an eating disorder anorexia/bulimia i was also diagnosed with depression, anxiety and low self esteem due to being traumatised when i was 5. ( My uncle sexual abused me) i attended therpay sessions which obviously after years of keeping this secret to myself had to be re opened, bringing back memories id been trying to block for years. ive been in relationships and ive had intercourse but never have i felt sexy during it , ive always felt used or dirty. obviously through my eating disorder i lost my period and it still has not came back. i have also lost my sexual attraction to guys and my arousal has completely gone in fact it makes me feel sick the thought of it. 

Can anyone enlighten me on this topic if you yourself have experienced this and if it has came back and/or how long it took! 

Comment by Dezi on March 30, 2013 at 10:50am

I think its time to try and rev this group up a bit and get started. I'm looking for some people that wanna offer ideas on how to make this group better. 

Comment by Dezi on May 7, 2012 at 1:00pm

Sex is full of lies. The body tries to tell the truth. But, it's usually too battered with rules to be heard, and bound with pretenses so it can hardly move. We cripple ourselves with lies.
Jim Morrison

Comment by Dezi on April 30, 2012 at 2:05am

Ahh Spring! For my side of the planet it means birth, growth and warm weather!  Makes me feel so excited!!!

Comment by cecilie malene on April 22, 2012 at 7:36pm

Hi guys, started a karezza and cupids poisened arrow group for those with interest :)

Comment by Dezi on January 23, 2012 at 3:39am

Hey everyone it's been awhile since I posted on here. Dizzy Unfortunately had to leave 30Baday so if anyone is interested in helping assist with managing this group please let me know through my email (I check it more frequently) theobromas@live.com

Comment by Chris Randall on November 7, 2011 at 12:31pm

Hehe nice! 


Your cats really should get a room though.....

Comment by melissa jackson on November 6, 2011 at 2:06pm
My cats still get it on everyday. They're both fixed. My dog runs over and breaks them up & freaks out because she thinks blue( the male) is hurting squeak ( the female. ) It's hilarious!

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