Sexual Partners

how often do you wait before engaging in sex with someone new, if at all?

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Permalink Reply by Kristi Warner on October 9, 2011 at 5:28pm

Hahah I love that!

Right after the guys says "lets just take it easy and wait for when we are both ready there's no rush"...

Permalink Reply by Natasha-Anne on November 1, 2010 at 6:47am

I think you should wait a couple months. I don't believe in having sex with people you don't love and it takes a while to really love a person.

Permalink Reply by YesicanⓋXE on November 14, 2010 at 5:38pm

I usually really like to go slow towards romance and I Love to stay on first base for a long time and second/third too. Its a lot about building up tension for me and making the pleasure stretch out. I have a tantric ideal in sex that is enchanting, but I think its rare that I meet Lovers that match me.

Permalink Reply by ♥Dizzy♥Loves♥You♥ on November 23, 2010 at 7:51pm

It depends, but I've never been one to rush into sexual relationships, usually it's my partner that's in a bigger hurry than me. I'm not the average guy I guess. LOL

Touching and cuddling can be as fulfilling as the final act. Patience seems to make for a thrilling conclusion for when you finally do merge.

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Permalink Reply by Love on December 17, 2010 at 4:12pm

Like these last two. Each base is so wonderful, I like to enjoy each one as long as possible. My partners too want to hit home the first time more quickly than I'm interested in.

Generally for me I wait at least one month, usually more. I don't feel in a rush.

Permalink Reply by Dezi on December 18, 2010 at 7:16am

agreed

Permalink Reply by Adrienne D. on February 9, 2011 at 4:31pm

Though I have only been with two men I still do not feel it is necessary to wait. I've "waited" 3 weeks, and I've had sex on a first date. Really it was just a matter of finding a convenient time for both of us. If we feel comfortable, are attracted and we're both willing then why put it off?

Permalink Reply by Kristi Warner on October 9, 2011 at 5:31pm

Permalink Reply by Barbo on August 11, 2011 at 4:02am

I don't have a set rule, whenever I feel the connection. The longest time for me was a month, but only because we didn't have a place to do it! I remember we were so desperate that we were consedering to do it in he park after sunset!

I don't think I could wait for months. I'd hate to find out after such a long time if there's no sexual compability. For me sexuality is a very big and very important part of a relationship.

Permalink Reply by Kristi Warner on October 9, 2011 at 5:30pm

It all depends for me. I've only been with 2 guys, but with the first it was once I was fully comfortable. With the second I met him online, and about 7 hours into meeting we were going at it. Normally I'd think that were a bad thing BUT we ended up getting married, so it makes it sound less terrible in mind..even if we are now seperated.