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Anyone going to Chiang Mai inThailand this winter?

Started by Louise Koch. Last reply by Fabii Oct 14. 6 Replies

I'm going to be in Chiang Mai from early november to mid march and would love to meet up with other fruities. I'm also going to join the Fruit winter event in january so is anyone else going to be…Continue

Tags: thailand, mai, chiang

Philly/south jersey area vegans?????

Started by Chris Williams. Last reply by Mike Bru Oct 12. 3 Replies

HI Im Chris looking to meet likeminded  peps in the area. I love doing anything outdoors and some of my hobbies are cycling, working out, beach, surfing, gardening etc. Werr are the compassionate…Continue

single male searching for the right companion

Started by Pat McLaughlin Oct 12. 0 Replies

Looking for the right girl that wants to share a fruity adventure in paradise :) can't think of a better way to meet can you?Continue

any single male in 40s?

Started by kim Oct 12. 0 Replies

its thanksgiving long weekend in canada today.i am thankful to this hclf unlimited calori lifestyle, thankful to freelea and duranrider, thankful to food and my body digest system.i wish i could be…Continue

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Comment by Natalia Maella on April 8, 2012 at 4:42pm
Thanks for your comment Casey. Your words are sooo true.. But... What happens when u seem to have found that specific person and s/he won't give everything? That's where I am now... Trying to give it a meaning.. Cos I'm really lost xD
Comment by Natalia Maella on April 8, 2012 at 3:39pm

OMG That's one of the best comments anybody ever wrote for me. I really appreciate it.  Thank you so much. It touched me :) Yeah, my "problem" is that I live everything to the fullest and I usually expose myself too much. Unarmed.. so I can get hurt very easily. I live good things in a very intense way as well, so I think it makes up for it somehow.. but I only appreciate that when I am up, not now :(

He thought being with me was gonna be too difficult given our current lives.. maybe he was not that into me ;)

At least he got a copy of 80/10/10  :D

Comment by Natalia Maella on April 8, 2012 at 12:11pm

That's true.. I shouldn't give this much.. anyway lesson learnt for the next experience.. xD (who am I trying to fool? That's in my nature!)

Comment by Simply Vegan on April 8, 2012 at 12:07pm

But at least you can say you put yourself out on a limb you know? Thats courage right there! 

Comment by Natalia Maella on April 8, 2012 at 12:03pm

I know Jayme.. that's what I usually do in my life! I try to be a better person everyday and I think I thrive.. but this moment is being hard for me as I exposed myself too much and got nothing in return... but I know I will stand up again, maybe stronger :)

Comment by Simply Vegan on April 8, 2012 at 11:54am

aw don't be sad! Look, I don't even really know you and I can tell you're a beautiful person, there is no reason to be downtrodden from relationships. People come and people go but as long as you are confident and happy with yourself, that's all that should matter at this point. Once you've got that down, then you can start to think about any significant relationships with someone because then you can go into it gunho and you'll be so confident with yourself that you'll be making good decisions left and right. 

If we just work on making ourselves better people then we can turn all those positive vibes outwards and infect others!

Comment by Natalia Maella on April 8, 2012 at 11:39am

You are right! But I'm just feeling apathetic. I did found someone who thought was "good enough" (I don't want to sound snobbish..) but it turned out not be ready for the relationship.. and that made me feel so miserable...

I am not looking for anybody actively.. I'm just open to anything to happen.. but to be honest with you I'm getting quite tired and sad...

Comment by Sanazberries on April 8, 2012 at 11:33am
I just want to live a sustainable, simple, environmentally conscious life' +1
Comment by Simply Vegan on April 8, 2012 at 11:28am

Yeah Natalia never settle! Make compromises yes, but never settle for anything. I am having that problem too though, not being able to find someone with a similar (non destructive) lifestyle. Seemingly everyone I am in contact with at college are just walking zombies, nobody feels alive, it's like the walking dead lol. 

I just want to live a sustainable, simple, environmentally conscious life in Hawaii and just be happy.

I dunno it's just kinda discouraging I guess because you want to just go about doing your everyday things and not have to think about finding someone; but at the same time you want somebody, so you sort of are looking. I dunno, that probably makes no sense. I'll stop ranting now....

Comment by Rachel Fleming on April 8, 2012 at 9:23am

Oh, don't say that Natalia!!

Although, I know how you feel. I haven't dated anyone for two years. :) You shouldn't settle!


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